Got some Beernt? Been Beernted? Need to get the Beernt? Beeeeeeeeeeeeeeernt! What's "the Beernt" you ask? You'll find out from the newest blogumnist on the scene who's dispensing The Beernt for your questions, problems, issues, concerns, and dilemmas. Ms. Beernt takes your letters and dishes out the best Beernt for your blog buck!
Please send in yours to harrisofhollywood@yahoo.com
Our first letter this week comes from yours truly:
"Dear Ms. Beernt. Whenever I talk to my straight girlfriends about men cheating, they get really upset. I feel that when men step outside their relationship for sex, it has nothing to do with them. They don't love them any less, they just need to have a variety." Do you agree?"
Signed
Harris of Hollywood
Dear Harris of Hollywood,
When men cheat (we are talking about men in committed relationships, I assume?) it's about wanting to cum. What feels good at the moment. Most men are not cheating for the emotional attachment. Mature men - men who know that cheating is dishonest and sneaky, and will cause pain to someone they care about, choose to look past the instant arousal and attraction. They might choose to look at porn, or masturbate to images they desire, but don't get with their chosen partner. Cheating is not an act of love. It's selfish, and self serving. These two things don't belong in a committed relationship. If it's about variety - don't commit to one person. Then it's not cheating.
Hope that helps.
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